From the Heart – Developing Your Attraction

“Be whole and present so that you effortlessly draw in to you what you want in life vs. having to sell, seduce or promote yourself” (CoachU 1999)

Attraction is the opposite to promotion or seduction. To be attractive means that good stuff naturally comes to you. As we develop personally and professionally, we prefer to become attractive to opportunities, others, potential customers, ourselves and the future, rather than being better at promoting, marketing, seducing, controlling or manipulating.

Actions to Develop your Attraction

• Create a strong vision of what you truly desire
• Set strong personal and professional boundaries
• Live your life with integrity
• Create a reserve of time, space, energy and money
• Take extreme self-care and invest in yourself
• Live in the present and act on what is important first
• Identify what you are ‘putting up with’ and clean them up NOW
• Acknowledge yourself for every little step you take
• Create a ‘done list’ - instead of a ‘to do list’
• Add value for the joy of it
• Acknowledge others around you
• Find what you love doing and ‘live to work’ – not ‘work to live’